Life can be hard

LET’S MAKE PEACE — INSIDE AND OUT

I’m San — a psychologist and therapist. I spent years at war with myself (and sometimes still am).

Peace is different for everyone: with yourself, your partner, your family.
Let’s find what it looks like for you.

Let’s talk

Queer 🌈 and neurodivergent-friendly 🧠
Conventional and non-conventional relationships ❤️ & families 🏠
In English, Spanish and German

COACHING* (online)

individual coaching $140

Space to think clearly and take the next step.
50 min.

couples coaching $170

For partners who want to grow in the same direction. 60 min.

*available for everyone, everywhere

How coaching works →

THERAPY* (in Berlin & online)

individual therapy $105

One-on-one support for whatever you’re carrying.
50 min.

couples therapy $130

For relationships and families ready to understand each other more. 60 min.

*Heilpraktiker Law; only for residents in Germany and Mexico

How therapy works →

Self-paced support

Go as far as it feels right.

FIRST STEPS

feeling flooded $19

audio series: when your emotions feel like the enemy

feeling stuck $19

audio series: when every decision turns into a fight with yourself

GO DEEPER

slow down $97

video course: when life is too much

Peace flows both ways. Make peace with yourself, and it flows out to the people around you. Be kind to someone else, and it finds its way back in. That’s the whole idea behind RiverCalm.

Why RiverCalm?

We live in a world with a lot of fighting in it — and quieter battles inside us. The same harshness we see between people often turns inward — as self-hatred and sabotage. I’ve seen, as a psychologist and in my own life, that peace can start small and spread. That’s what RiverCalm is for.

More About San →

Can’t decide?

Start small. Let it grow.

feeling flooded
feeling stuck